AMTDI is alive and well in Warehouse 13, where the A stands for artifacts. I'm the same way - the potential for dubcon needs to be acknowledged by the author, but as long as that happens then it's one of my go-tos. I think I like it for the same reasons I like the 'huddling for warmth'/'undercover marriage' types - those are less forceful, but they follow the same routes of getting Our Chosen Pairing to a place where they can't hide or ignore those feeeeelings any longer!

...I wish there was more undercover marriage fic in femslash. Sigh. I am going to have to be the change I want to see in the world (my life, so hard).