yes, i am also a gay lady in a ltr who has begun to contemplate having kids. not sure if they will be biological or adopted or foster at this point. but i am a firm believer that love makes a family. i also come from an incredibly dysfunctional bio family and i can tell you i feel little special magic bond to them. seriously, the way that OUaT treats adoption is criminal- i feel terrible for any adopted kids who happen to watch that show.