With F/F I adore the word 'pussy'. I like the way it rolls off the tongue. I don't mind 'cunt' as a term, but it seems to hard for me. Certain people I write seem to need the word, though.

I can't stand vulva, vagina, or slit. I've always associated it with me being female, but also genderfluid, and I tend to have some latent dysphoria with that area of my body. (Okay, more than latent.) Pussy and cunt just feel more natural.

I love the word 'cock'. It feels confident and sexy. Penis feels so young, and dick is such a teenage feeling word.