but other times I think that femslashers just don't like to talk about femslash. Which isn't true, but eh. Least I don't think it's true.

I think the number of comments on the anon posts at girlgay do belie that statement. :) On the other hand, I also have started to wonder if femslashers (or a portion of femslashers) have evolved a culture where we're supposed to put on a polite public face. Because the accusations of not being nice and the "right way" to femslash and encourage more femslash that show up on the anon post are...interesting. If frustrating, because there's no one "right way" to femslash and encourage more femslash.