I think I wrote one that was about approaches to writing f/f sex scenes, but it was more about tone and less about mechanics and things people want to use.
I do have a lot of thoughts about writing f/f sex scenes, but I feel really hesitant about writing "how to write an f/f sex scene" for a lot of reasons (besides the fact that I have no clue if any of mine are *good* or not). For one, I don't want to come off as being prescriptive, at all since even the general "rules" (like the majority of women don't orgasm from penetration) are going to have large numbers of exceptions. Two, I think about 90% of writing a good f/f sex scene is also applicable to writing a good m/f or m/m sex scene or vice versa, and that remaining 10% is really about differences in plumbing, which I'm not really sure how to approach it from a "how-to" stand point. I think it would help if there were specific questions to answer too, rather than just a big lump of "well, how do two women have sex anyway?"
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I do have a lot of thoughts about writing f/f sex scenes, but I feel really hesitant about writing "how to write an f/f sex scene" for a lot of reasons (besides the fact that I have no clue if any of mine are *good* or not). For one, I don't want to come off as being prescriptive, at all since even the general "rules" (like the majority of women don't orgasm from penetration) are going to have large numbers of exceptions. Two, I think about 90% of writing a good f/f sex scene is also applicable to writing a good m/f or m/m sex scene or vice versa, and that remaining 10% is really about differences in plumbing, which I'm not really sure how to approach it from a "how-to" stand point. I think it would help if there were specific questions to answer too, rather than just a big lump of "well, how do two women have sex anyway?"